Update on Homoerotica

Had a couple people comment that there aren't exactly written rules for displaying affection for another man if one is gay either. Fine, I know what you are saying, as there are no written rules period and people can be complicated (believe me, got a big dose of that--and saw it in myself--very recently).

My point--if I even had one--was that it's just strange to me. The whole locker room/homoerotica/insult thing. Just don't know where it comes from (though it can be fun to engage in from time to time, I suppose--the banter that is).